Ronda Rousey's mother AnnMaria De Mars is a former Judo world champion, a doctor of philosophy and a darned interesting blogger. Doctor De Mars regularly updates her blog, The Business/Judo of Life, discussing everything from academics to the fight world.
Immediately after her daughter's loss to Amanda Nunes at UFC 207 on Friday, Dr. De Mars wrote as only a mother could, reflecting on who #RondaRousey really is, and all that she's accomplished, despite recent setbacks.
Like every mother and daughter on the face of the earth, Ronda and I don't always see eye to eye. However, there is one situation where I am pretty certain.
All of those who have criticized Ronda for taking a loss so to heart, for not just 'shrugging it off' don't understand that what made Ronda so successful is that she cares DEEPLY about winning to an extent that I don't believe the average person can wrap his/her head around.
Caring deeply about something and working your hardest to achieve it doesn't mean you make the right decisions 100% of the time. Wouldn't it be a nicer world if it did?
Those of you who want to criticize Ronda, I just want to point out a few things. First of all, I know her better than you and she is a smart, kind, talented, generous, hard-working person.
When someone is as famous as the former bantamweight world champion is, pundits everywhere can act as though they know something about her. Doctor De Mars attempted to let people know the real Ronda. She also took more than a few lines to remind people just how bad-ass Rousey is, despite having lost two, straight MMA fights.
Second, I'd like to list some of her accomplishments, and note that she isn't yet 30 years old.
Junior World Judo Champion
Panamerican Games Judo Gold Medalist
First American woman in a decade to win a world cup in judo (and then she went on to win several more)
U.S. Open Gold Medalist
World Judo Championships Silver Medalist
Olympic Bronze Medalist
U.S. Senior National Champion
First UFC World Champion
First woman to make a million dollars in martial arts
Co-authored sports book of the year - My Fight/ Your Fight
Acted in three movies
That's just a partial list, but let me suggest that someone who has been world level athlete in two sports, written a best seller, acted in movies and made millions of dollars, all before the age of 30 has a pretty darn good track record. On top of that, Ronda has been part of the USADA drug testing since she was 16 years old, never failed a drug test, always paid her taxes, never been arrested, never been to rehab, has zero divorces, zero DUIs and zero children. While you might think that is to be expected, look how many celebrities (heck, look how many of your neighbors) can say that.
I am very proud of my daughter.
As my other wonderful daughter, Maria, told her:
"We love you just as much 10 minutes after every fight as we did in the 10 minutes before."
Edit: Since so many people asked me "What do you mean zero children? Children aren't a bad thing." I agree. I have four. I meant that she did not have children before she was able and willing to raise them.